Welcome NZ. Well, yes, we can help you with the sexual escalation, as a matter of fact, lol.
I tell a lot of guys to learn how to have a sexual frame, or a seduction frame of mind. You have to be comfy with your own body, with your own sexuality, and not be afraid of sex. That has to come before you can efficiently escalate sexually with a girl.
There is material out there on seduction, on giving better orgasms, etc. We have much of it on this very forum. And, if I can get to New Zealand, I'd be happy to meet with you in the form of a workshop and help you to see first hand how you do that, and to learn for yourself.
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Make her qualify herself to
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