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L.A. Tripp
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 |  Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . .  Wed Nov 19, 2008 6:14 am | |
| | ~Meg~ wrote: | If you have friends that are girls than you are not in bad shape. At least you are able to talk to females and gain comfort.
If you carry yourself and speak with confidence than girls will definitely pick up on it and the rest will follow. |
I actually really agree with this, at least the way it's coming across to me. Kam, you seem to have at least this advantage going for you, that you can create comfort in the girls that are around you. The problem I see is that you're not building attraction in any of them.
I also agree that ONS's and SNL's are ok, as long as both parties know that's what's going on, going into the encounter and are both OK with it, otherwise it's one party using the other, and that's not OK.
As far as dehumanizing this . . . I think that's the one BIG problem with a lot of guys that get into this community. Too many ARE looking at girls as strictly pieces of meat to satisfy their primal urges, when in fact girls most definitely DO have value, and that should be recognized. So, Karma, I agree with you on that and actually on most of your points as well.
Par has a point that may help Kam, I'm not sure. I don't know, maybe Kam is already doing this, looking at women and men equally. Maybe that's why he can so easily create more friendships in girls. Of course, Kam, you already have no problem creating comfort, so that really isn't an issue anyway, it's creating the attraction that is the issue for you.
As far as walking into a room and bending the social dynamics so that you come out on top . . . that's one thing that I actually teach in various ways with the advice I dish out, and it's also what Mystery teaches as well, if you pay close attention to what he's saying. In fact, it's what most PUG's teach, deep down under the surface, but not all of them are effective with it.
However, if you were to watch Mystery in action, usually he pulls off what he teaches very well. He can, in fact, walk into a venue and become the center of attention, the life of the party, and draw people to him. It's also what I do in my venues. So, yes, we are bending the social dynamics in our favor and coming out on top._________________ Find a g/f for V-day! Attend my next workshop! http://latripp.blogspot.com/www.latripp.weebly.comAlpha: "Come here, now." AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?" You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds. Make her qualify herself to YOU.Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her! |
|  | | RockandRollah
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Fri Mar 27, 2009 5:26 am | |
| rAfc here. I found this forum through google looking for PUAs to learn from in my area while I'm home from R&R from Iraq. I've been studying pickup for a little while now but haven't gotten to/ got the nerve up to try to apply it yet. |
| | | | L.A. Tripp
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Fri Mar 27, 2009 5:54 am | |
| Welcome man. We've got a good member from Texas. Fortunehooks1 is his name. Look for him here on this forum. _________________ Find a g/f for V-day! Attend my next workshop! http://latripp.blogspot.com/www.latripp.weebly.comAlpha: "Come here, now." AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?" You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds. Make her qualify herself to YOU.Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her! |
| | | | Ritch
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:06 am | |
| Well, I'm Ritch (not rich lol.) I'm currently in Iraq but from Portland, OR. Living in Texas. It's confusing, I know. I just ordered Mystery's book, as well as "The Game." I go on leave in a month so I will get to try what I am reading about out in Portland. Only for a couple of weeks before coming back to Iraq. I want to learn each and every thing there is to know. In other words, I am ultra determined. Thank you for letting me be a part of the tight, well learned, and dam right bad ass community. |
| | | | L.A. Tripp
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Thu Jul 16, 2009 3:24 pm | |
| Ritch, very much welcome to this forum. We have tons of great info here and a great core group of guys to get insight from. I'm sure you can learn everything you're looking for to complete your journey here. _________________ Find a g/f for V-day! Attend my next workshop! http://latripp.blogspot.com/www.latripp.weebly.comAlpha: "Come here, now." AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?" You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds. Make her qualify herself to YOU.Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her! |
| | | | ~Meg~
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| | | | | Ritch
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Fri Jul 17, 2009 2:02 am | |
| Thanks meg and Tripp  . I just ordered the vault and am looking forward to it  . (3 to 5 days.) |
| | | | L.A. Tripp
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Fri Jul 17, 2009 2:49 am | |
| | ~Meg~ wrote: | | L.A. Tripp wrote: | Ritch, very much welcome to this forum. We have tons of great info here and a great core group of guys to get insight from.
I'm sure you can learn everything you're looking for to complete your journey here. |
ahem...
Welcome guys! |
Gasp! Didn't you know you were just one of the guys . . . *cough* *cough* . . . just with an added pussy . . .  _________________ Find a g/f for V-day! Attend my next workshop! http://latripp.blogspot.com/www.latripp.weebly.comAlpha: "Come here, now." AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?" You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds. Make her qualify herself to YOU.Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her! |
| | | | bigjamiemac
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Yesterday at 11:38 am | |
| I am Jamie, I am just a stranger to the game and to this forum. I tried to walk away and revamp my AFC style that I thought just needed tweeking. Well I was wrong. The only thing left for me to do is get back into PUA and revamp my style PERIOD. I just wanted to scop out the board. I haven't been on here in AGES!! Sorry Tripp!!!! I am back to where I was when I found this site. I am a pile of jello when it comes to a woman. My Online game even sucks now. I am cursed with Bad luck with woman!! I am in dire need to redo my way of thinking.. I will see you all around.. I am off here for the evening.. Good Day to all!! BigJ |
| | | | L.A. Tripp
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| | Subject: Re: Strangers to the Game, or at least this forum . . . Yesterday at 10:34 pm | |
| Hey Jamie, good to see you back around! Yep, we've changed things around a bit. We've also added some short videos. Plus, we're planning to be in Panama City Beach soon as well. Yep, as always, it's your way of thinking, lol. Well man, again, have a look around, and start posting! _________________ Find a g/f for V-day! Attend my next workshop! http://latripp.blogspot.com/www.latripp.weebly.comAlpha: "Come here, now." AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?" You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds. Make her qualify herself to YOU.Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her! |
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