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PostSubject: She gets scared   Fri Dec 19, 2008 12:05 am

I've talked before several times about flipping the script on the girl. You come out with things the girl would normally say, but you beat her to it.

Well, here's another way of flipping the script, but it's slightly different.

How many realize that the GIRL actually gets scared and doesn't know what to say when YOU open the set and start running it? It doesn't mean she isn't interested in you. In fact, if she's shy, it could mean she's very interested, but is really scared of screwing HERSELF up when she talks to you.

So many guys are worried about them screwing up . . . think about it from her viewpoint. She is, at times, worried about messing things up with YOU for herself as well.

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PostSubject: Re: She gets scared   Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:08 am

This actually leads to something else. If the girl shifts the conversation in an attempt to put you in the friend zone, or if you see that she's nervous, then you can easily say something like "It's ok, you can calm down. I know you're attracted to me but it's cool. Let's just get to know each other right now." With a smile, and confidence obviously.

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AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"

You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.

Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
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PostSubject: Re: She gets scared   Sun Dec 21, 2008 2:24 am

I find that a friendly bit of comedy helps.
If a girl is really shy, I'm careful not to put the spotlight on her or to lower her value.
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