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PostSubject: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sat Jan 03, 2009 8:17 pm

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Last night I went out salsa dancing with some friends and I was having fun. My energy level was like through the roof. HB10 was standing outside waiting for her ride and I start talking to her. I don't know if I did something wrong(used original opener, "i'm thinking of trimming my eye brows and I've never done it before how would i go about doing it[its true anyways]) or if she was just feeling bad because from the moment I started talking to her she started to "suck the fun out of me". She wasn't really laughing all that much and she wasn't much into the convo. Any ideas guys?
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sat Jan 03, 2009 8:51 pm

I don't really know bout the opener but if it was delivered correctly it could work. how was your body language etc? i wouldn't worry about it maybe she is just a bitch or shy or she has a boyfriend or something.
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sat Jan 03, 2009 8:54 pm

Don't let anyone drag you down. If you're not getting a posivite responce leave the set and try and find someone more fun. Think to yourself "oh well their loss. Oh that person over there is probably more fun"
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sat Jan 03, 2009 10:43 pm

Why would you hang out with someone that sucks the fun out of you?
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sat Jan 03, 2009 11:56 pm

She responded well to the opener, it REALLY got her talking, kinda a weak IOI but she said I have pretty eyebrows? lol and that I shouldn't trim them. Body language leaning back, maybe a LITTLE bit of fidgeting. Maybe if I saw her from the side she might have been poking her head in a bit. She tried to reinitiate conversation, asked me my age/school(i 16 she 15)
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sun Jan 04, 2009 2:06 am

So she was talking to you and re-initiating convo etc., and still sucking the fun out of you? You say down here that she was into the convo but the first post says she wasn't into the convo. Which is it?

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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sun Jan 04, 2009 4:32 am

Sorry, let me rephrase. She was re initiating the convo, but like without enthusiasm. Just like in a normal tone of voice.. no passion no energy nada
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:45 pm

Lazy

So... Hmm...
I think I get what you want to say. She re-initiated the convo but with a very low energy level.
Maybe she was tired after school, but still wanted to know how old you were and what school you went to?
Not all the people have the same amount of energy level.
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sun Jan 04, 2009 8:18 pm

The only problem I can assume from the situation is that you didn't hit her with a spike to get her going.

The opener was good, but if she doesn't react, it's because you didn't make her react.

And she reinitiated convo but with no emotion, correct? Well, that's a jumpstart. You could of had her going more and more. People react to different things.
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PostSubject: Re: How do you guys stay "in state"   Sun Jan 04, 2009 9:05 pm

Alright, thanks guys. I'll try to keep speaking with enthusiasm in the future so maybe it'll spread Smile
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