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PostSubject: Dance Game   Thu Jul 23, 2009 6:37 pm

Long story short I went out with a mate and had a very keen girl dance against me - I choked and then my mate ended up with her.

Does anyone have any resources on dance work. I am not a moron dancer but a little help may be in order.
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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Thu Jul 23, 2009 8:55 pm

How did you choke Matt? Have you done any kino on the dance floor at all? I'll be happy to help you in this area. Just tell me . . . how "bad" you are, lol.

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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Fri Jul 24, 2009 3:50 am

Sounds to me like your not confident when you dance.

Many guys have this misconception that you have to be a "good dancer" to be accepted when you dance...this is simply opposite of the truth.

The honest truth is all you have to do when you dance is be confident...it doesnt matter if you dance like a baboon with downes syndrome having a seizure, if your confident when your doing it ppl will dig it.

Ive seen this and experienced it first hand...my cousin for instance dances like hes been sniffing paint all day and hes trying to catch rainbows and polka dots with his hands...yet he is super confident when he does it and he feeds off the attention it gets him.

The best frame of mind is to make the dancing about you...make it about YOU having fun, about YOU enjoying yourself, about YOU expressing yourself....and before you know it youll be completely confident on the dance floor, regardless of if you can actually dance or not.

Seriously, i was watching Step UP 2 yesterday, the movie...and i realized how silly they look trying to dance...and they are professionals and take it seriously. Now admittedly i have a huge crush on the lead girl in the movie...but thats another story ill spare you.

Point is apply the same confidnece you would aim for in normal social interaction to when your on the dance floor...positive body language, smile, energy...you can even use it to be the center of attention or social proof yourself.

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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Fri Jul 24, 2009 8:26 am

It was about me, I dance with a smile and generally laughter at others dancing. I know the amount of dance I can do its just once they are all in my proximity i choke it up.
All my mate did was do the come here fingers and twirled her around. I was wanting things like that. Not the twirl because everytime I see that I think PUA.
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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Fri Jul 24, 2009 1:14 pm

Matt, exactly why are you choking up when the girls are in proximity?

Are you unsure of yourself with girls when on the dance floor, or in general?

It sounds like you know you have dance moves, but when an attractive girl is around, your confidence in yourself just vanishes. Are you putting the girls on a pedestool in your mind? What is causing the gap that makes you suddenly feel not confident when the girls are in proximity?

Do you truly know your own value?

Are you afraid to touch them?

The girls will respond to confidence and to kino when on the dance floor. As Ka said, the moves are secondary. If you DO have good moves, that's an added bonus that will draw more favorable attention, but the most important factors are having confidence in yourself and being comfortable enough with yourself that you are not afraid to touch the girls. And to escalate the kino as well. They expect that. Confidence is king on the dance floor.

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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Sat Jul 25, 2009 4:51 am

That might be it. I just dont do any touching to pull them in or anything, even when I know i should. I will work on this then re-asses the dance floor.
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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:27 am

Matt, same thing i said hold true....Confidence. Make it about you...your losing your confidence when a girls close bc its NOT about you, if it where about you it wouldnt nmatter who was near you.

wana know what to do when a girl gets too close...turn to your mate and leave the girl stairing at your back....

Ive done this many times and it always seems to get the girls closer or they grab your butt or dance right in your space...I did it to a bachlorette party and seconds after i did it i had three girls pulling me different ways.

However dont leave that to be your only move, sometimes go up to them and dance, or when they get close wave them over, or just make strong ec and smile.

Just to sum things up...change your mindset...make it purely and truely about you, and keep yourself confident.

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PostSubject: Re: Dance Game   Wed Aug 19, 2009 6:49 am

Just an update. Ive been hitting the dancefloors more and with different people. Getting alot more reactions and being able to pull in to dance on multiple occassions. I will refine and become the god of the dancefloor ...
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