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PostSubject: It's the man's responsibility...   Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:46 pm

It's the man's responsibility to create attraction with women. Something Tripp said in another thread made this click in my head. It's just the nature of the dynamic. Defiantly a new way of looking at things for me, but the more I think about it the more true it rings.
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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:28 pm

Definitely, if you think about how attraction works for each sex, it stands out.

Guys are initially attracted by something tangible...physical looks.

Women are attracted initially by the intangible; social stature, confidence, preselection, etc.

Alot of what attracts a woman to us has to be displayed, said, or seen...and for a woman to get that we need to put it out there...we need to be seen out with others, we need to talk to them, and we need to interact.

In this manner a woman can attract us from across the room, or even indirectly from us seeing a picture or hearing their voice (this creates a mental image)...but for a woman to really become attracted to us, we need to interact with them and let them "see" our attractive qualities first hand. Thus its up to us to create that attraction.

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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:57 pm

Sounds like the women have a much, much easier...
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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Wed Oct 21, 2009 10:37 pm

Easier? I'm not sure I'd put it that way. Ask women how much time they spend trying to look their best, etc. They put in a good deal of effort into it themselves. The difference is, women have always been taught how to attract men. Society has, on the other hand tried to "changed the rules" on men thanks to the idea of equality. I'm not trying to say that equality is a bad thing, but we were taught the wrong set of rules growing up. We were taught to handle women differently than two or three generations ago. Just take TV for instance. Do a quick compare & contrast of I Love Lucy, or The Honeymooners versus your average family sitcom of today. Just take a look at the difference in the male/female dynamic portrayed. Of course that is TV, and neither really reflect the truth of the real world directly. But they do represent some of what society teaches about male/female dynamics. I do not think our father's father, and so on had the same problems with women to the degree the last few generations have had.
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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Thu Oct 22, 2009 2:56 am

Social standards also dictate that we have to initiate contact, we have to flirt first, we have to call, we have to set up a date....I try to challenge that sometimes by making them call me or take me out....doesn't always work hehe
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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Thu Oct 22, 2009 3:07 am

That's what the alphas do, lead the way, whether it be leading men or leading women. Glad something I said clicked with you though, lol.

And no, women don't have it much easier. Talk to any woman that's not going out every night with a different guy and she'll share her extreme frustration with you. They are looking for the same thing you are . . . and also having trouble finding it.

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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:53 am

LaRockStar wrote:
Sounds like the women have a much, much easier...

tell that to any women BORN of average or below looks...thats not something you can just change...your looks are something you live with your whole life...

I would agree in a sense though...women have more "options" then guys...not that all options are good. Also, guys suffer from the human disease of accepting "good enough" instead of "the best for me"....The guys who are willing to put in the effort are laying super models and the women of their dreams, while other guys are content masturbating to pictures of super models.

As others have pointed out society plays a role in the dynamics too...just got back from the gym and this lil hottie was there, caught her looking my way a few times. I considered opening her, had the perfect opener laid out...but i decided to just cop out and finish my workout...why? because i have the choice to go talk to her whenever i want...she on the other hand has to sit and wait Smile

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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Thu Oct 22, 2009 7:31 am

LOL, keep telling yourself that Ka Wink

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PostSubject: Re: It's the man's responsibility...   Thu Oct 22, 2009 5:08 pm

L.A. Tripp wrote:
LOL, keep telling yourself that Ka

If i say it enough it becomes true ;-)

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