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PostSubject: Last day of class i want her number   Fri Dec 04, 2009 10:48 am

Alright so theres this girl in my class who seems like shes interested in me. She threw in some IOIs like she always comes sits next to me when theres bunch of seats available which have much more room, she introduced herself to me and she keeps asking me questions and she told me i have really nice eyes, oh she also asked if I will be attending the extra credit show that we had last weekend. Now heres the problem. I havent been really able to talk to her much besides answering those questions that she asked me during class, because its one of those classes where you have to be super focused on the lecture and take down some really good notes in order to pass the class so I really dont have much time to talk to her in the class and after that class we both have another class so we kinda jet out of that room. Now tuesday is our last class and i probly will not see her after that. Is there any thing i can do to possibly get her number? I mean i think those were all IOIs so wouldnt it be pretty simple to get her number?

Let me know what i can do. thanks guys
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Fri Dec 04, 2009 11:26 am

If SHE had that time to talk to you . . . how come YOU weren't able to talk back with her at those times?

Alright, yes, getting her number IS easy. Those ARE definite IOI's she showed you. She's been TRYING to get your attention. So, just ask her for her number. Straight up, don't be afraid. If you HAVE to have something to say besides "let's exchange numbers", say "let's exchange numbers so I can actually answer the questions you asked me during class. Then we can talk more."

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:35 pm

I say ballsy is the best approach, you don't need to build up attraction to get a number! FACT!

Actually being ballsy and DEMANDING a number is ATTRACTIVE
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:41 pm

Uhh trip the reason for that is because she comes to class and texts on her phone through the whole class she doesn't take notes i take down pretty much every word the professor says lol.. (dedication) so just straight up ask her for her number? Should i throw in something like considering that this class kept me busy all the time, we werent able to really get to know each other give me your number and ill hit you up sometime... ? hows that?
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Fri Dec 04, 2009 5:11 pm

LOL. You say dedication . . . she thinks "nerdy" lmao.

Yes, what you said is fine. It's along the same lines as what I said. Just make it HUMUROUS when you say it.

Me and Cro have pretty much said the same thing here. Straight up saying let's exchange numbers, there's nothing wrong with that at all. But, as I said, if you HAVE to add more to it, then fine, just DO IT! LOL.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sat Dec 05, 2009 8:40 am

LOl tripp.. let her think nerdy its ok shes still throwing IOIs left and right lol.. the fact is at 3000 dollars a semester i have to be focused Smile lol otherwise i could just stay home
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 5:23 am

"Hey what's your number?"

or

"Do you like to party? We're gonna party together, what's your number?"

The more of a big deal you make outta getting her number, the more of a big deal she'll make.

Getting girls numbers from class works 99.9% of the time, for everyone, no matter how nerdy, ugly or game-less.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 6:53 am

Exactly. Making a big deal out of it makes it worse for everyone involved. It truly is NO BIG DEAL. It's just a number. There's not even skin contact involved . . . but there could be Wink

You need to focus . . . so take a voice recorder Wink

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 11:18 am

Lol alright guys ill ask her straight up no big deal... maybe we can have some sort of a "study date" before our final <-- thats of course if its not too nerdy Wink lollll
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 1:44 pm

"study date" will be too much of an investment on her part, you need a more casual setting for school girls, because she knows what you really mean, and that ups the pressure.

Just get the number and set a meet later in a more casual atmosphere than that
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:48 pm

what if the study date happens to take place somewhere public and casual? It just seems perfect considering our final is in a week, but if you guys think its not a good idea then I can find something else to do...
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 6:53 pm

Anythings good, as long as you don't call it a date
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Sun Dec 06, 2009 9:34 pm

The key here is . . . PRESSURE. Hell, you're ALREADY stressing yourself out over all this, lol. Just think of how you'll stress HER out right now. Relax. Chill. It's ok. It's just a boy meeting a girl and they mutually like each other.

Labels add pressure. Settings add pressure. EXPECTATIONS add pressure. ANTICIPATION brings excitement. See the difference? Get her to ANTICIPATE the time she will be giving to you. Just as YOU should anticipate the time you will be giving to her.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Mon Dec 07, 2009 2:24 am

Smile i get what u mean tripp ill relax Smile lol
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Tue Dec 08, 2009 11:21 pm

Alright guys I want to update you guys on what is going on with this. So I just got back from the class and today was an odd day we had some weird freezing air mass that had come in so our temperatures were like 34deg compared to the regular 55deg.. So I went to class and turns out our heater was broken so it was pretty much colder inside then it was outside. I started talking notes and she was late as usual. Were in a planetarium so the seats are like movie seats so usually she comes in and sits one seat away from me. This time some dude came and sat at her seat so that forced her to sit RIGHT NEXT to me (helped out a lot) this allowed me to talk to her a little more i thought it would be a nice touch.. So during the class we talked and stuff, I was kinda getting more nervous as the time went by and im like would she give it? I was looking for IOI's, then it happen randomly out of no where grabbed my hand softly to show me how cold her hands were and basically to check mine. In my mind im like alright its a done deal lol so class ended I asked her and she gave it...


Ok so now I got her number where do I take it from here? When would be a good time to call her? and what should be said?

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Tue Dec 08, 2009 11:28 pm

LOL. All that worry . . . for nothing. Right?

Now . . . you're worrying and stressing about how to call, when to call, what to say, where to take it . . . chill Wink

She likes you, man. She's shown you that. How MUCH she likes you we don't know yet. But at least she's comfortable with you. Go with that.

Call her up anytime now, but don't wait a week or anything like that. Invite her to hang out with you. You know the basics, right?

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Tue Dec 08, 2009 11:56 pm

yeh, ill just give it a day or two possibly Thursday I actually am really busy till Thursday.. I guess I can invite her somewhere on Thursday.. Would it be weird if I was with a guy friend and I invite her? like 2 guys 1 girl?
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 12:21 am

Don't wait till the day you want her to hang out to call. She may be busy herself and can't make it.

And no, it wouldn't be weird, unless you make it weird. In other words, just like with the number, if YOU act like it's a big deal, suddenly it is.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 1:54 am

Oh I was not sure if she would feel like in danger or something. I dunno ive read things like that..
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 1:56 am

What do you mean? In danger, why?

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 5:00 am

Honestly i cant remember what I read that had to do with that. Which ever you say its good its good!
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 6:27 am

Imo, ideally try to hangout with her one on one so things are more personal and you don't have to worry about your friend being at his games best, and them two clicking (it happens).

The only time I invite a girl I'm trying to fuck out with friends is if

A) We have the same friends

or

B) We meet up at my place to go to a party and take the same car so we feel like a couple

Try to build that couple mentality with her, this is especially important in college, she's not your friend so don't invite her to "hangout" like she's one of the guys.

Girls are a hundred times different around a group, than when just you and her one on one.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 6:52 am

The whole "don't call for like X days" rule is bullshit. You gotta ride that wave of comfort/rapport/attraction that you've created. Tripp is right, the call will seem weird if you make it weird.

Example Call:

iRHollywood: Hey are you free this weekend?
HB: Yeah
iRhollywood: I found this awesome Jazz club/bar downtown lets check it out Saturday, it should have a nice crowd, and decent music.

iRHollywood: Hey, you free this weekend?
HB: Nope, blah blah blah blah
iRHollywood: Ok, I'll go with Jim, Jane, John, and Donna.

In the first example I'm isolating but am I really? I'm taking her to a place where there are other people. Its casual,out in the open, its not perceived as anything serious. Notice I didn't ASK if she wanted go. I made a statement, in tone that says "you wouldn't break my heart if you said no"

Oh but wait! In the second example she says NO.

Well thats going to happen every now and then. You've got to take stuff like that in stride and show that it doesn't bother you. Its ok that she doesn't want to go out because you can have just as much fun with all your other friends.

If you invite her somewhere with you and your buddy than ask her to bring a friend. This:

A) Makes her feel safer, bit more comfy
B) gives your wingman/friend something to play with
C)2 chicks>1 chick
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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 7:41 am

iRHollywood wrote:
The whole "don't call for like X days" rule is bullshit. You gotta ride that wave of comfort/rapport/attraction that you've created. Tripp is right, the call will seem weird if you make it weird.

Example Call:

iRHollywood: Hey are you free this weekend?
HB: Yeah
iRhollywood: I found this awesome Jazz club/bar downtown lets check it out Saturday, it should have a nice crowd, and decent music.

iRHollywood: Hey, you free this weekend?
HB: Nope, blah blah blah blah
iRHollywood: Ok, I'll go with Jim, Jane, John, and Donna.

In the first example I'm isolating but am I really? I'm taking her to a place where there are other people. Its casual,out in the open, its not perceived as anything serious. Notice I didn't ASK if she wanted go. I made a statement, in tone that says "you wouldn't break my heart if you said no"

Oh but wait! In the second example she says NO.

Well thats going to happen every now and then. You've got to take stuff like that in stride and show that it doesn't bother you. Its ok that she doesn't want to go out because you can have just as much fun with all your other friends.

If you invite her somewhere with you and your buddy than ask her to bring a friend. This:

A) Makes her feel safer, bit more comfy
B) gives your wingman/friend something to play with
C)2 chicks>1 chick

If a girl can't feel safe going somewhere with you one on one, and you feel the need to bring others out with you, then you're doing something wrong.

I don't know how long you've been in the game, but the goal of pick-up is to get women alone to have sex with them, not to go "feel secure" around your friend and hers.

Check out some Brad P, Captain Jack and Sinn Day 2 write ups, and you'll learn a thing or two.

To quote Brad P on dating:

Quote :
If you go out of your way to become friends with a woman, it is highly unlikely you will ever be anything else to that woman. Do not, I repeat, do not, try to seem non-threatening, helpful, sympathetic, or otherwise overly friendly to women you have just met.

and

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Group Dates
Ill make this simple. Never agree to a group date. That goes twice for double dates. It
doesn't matter if it's your friends or her friends; it's never a good idea.

are you learning yet? read on

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Also, going out in a group doesn't give you the privacy you need to establish any intimacy. It will sabotage your focus and hers, and before you know it, you'll be saying goodnight at her door and getting that lame kiss on the cheek.

Being part of a group makes her uncomfortably aware of what her friends are thinking
about her, or what YOUR friends are thinking of her, if shes flirting, kissing, or going back
to your apartment.
It gives her a million excuses not to follow your lead. She has to go
with her roommate back on the subway. Her ride is leaving. Her sister is bored.

I mean it. Just say No to group outings and group dates. If a woman suggests one, say you're busy and set another meeting when she'll be alone. Try a weekday night, if she seems like a very social girl who always has plans with friends over the weekends. Or try meeting up on a Saturday or Sunday morning when the rest of your friends will be sleeping
in. Invite her to do something that doesn't lend itself to a group outing, like taking a free Salsa lesson, taking a long walk or hike in a park, or renting bikes.

So, despite what iRhollywood might, believe, no group dates.

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PostSubject: Re: Last day of class i want her number   Wed Dec 09, 2009 8:08 am

Great additions by both of you, Se7en and iRHollywood. And Se7en . . . thanks for crediting Wink

I'm wondering though, why were you asking about having another guy with you? Is it something you and your male friend were gonna be doing together already, or were you specifically planning it that way because you thought she might feel afraid or threatened or something?

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