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PostSubject: May as well be useful   Wed Dec 09, 2009 5:46 am

Well, I'm new here so I figured I might as well be helpful in some way.

Approach Anxiety

Yeah its a bitch, but its probably one of the easiest things to overcome in The Game.

You see a woman, you're attracted. You want to talk to her, but you start thinking some of the dumbest thoughts.

"I'm not attractive"
"She is way out of my league"
"Her friends are with her though"
"She probably has a boyfriend"
"Oh shit I think that guy is her boyfriend"
"She'll think I'm lame"
"Her friends will laugh"
"She probably only goes for the ____ type"

Unless you can read minds you don't have any of these answers. The only way to find out is to SPEAK WITH HER.

Yes she may reject you. I find that never knowing what could have been feels worse than a rejection. Keep in mind EVEN AFTER getting over AA you can still get rejected.

You won't get shivved or shot. You'll make some ladies day alittle brighter and you will have taken one step to getting over AA.

There are several ways to get over AA. My personal favorite is the "Hi game" and several variations of it

Go to a crowded area and simply say "hi" to every person you see. Male or female young and old, your only goal is to greet everyone so you can get used to approaching strangers.

To make things more fun for yourself you can say something stupid to random people throughout the day. After awhile you'll get used to this, fear of rejection will slowly fade away and you'll be able to move on.

I can go a whole day sarging and get rejected 24 times out of 25 approaches and still be somewhat satisfied.Why? Because I learned something from each rejection, I learned that my frame wasn't strong, there wasn't enough comfort, I negged too hard, my body language didn't match my words, I relied too much on canned material etc..


You will learn something from every single one of your approaches guaranfuckinteed. Instead of wondering "what if" get out there and make that "what if" a reality. Stop thinking about what she'll think of you she is nobody before the first "hi".

Personally my outlook on that particular thought is "Wait, this attractive woman is NOT my: mother, brother,sister, best friend, boss, mentor or any other person that I care about. So what she thinks or whatever her peers think doesn't mean shit to me."

Remember every time you get rejected:
You dared do something that hundreds of men only thought about before you.
You learned something
You made someones day. You brought a smile to a pretty girls face.
You will never think "what if I had spoken with her"





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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Wed Dec 09, 2009 7:55 am

Good post.

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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Wed Dec 09, 2009 4:21 pm

Good quality post, bro!
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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Fri Dec 11, 2009 1:13 am

...and he wants to take me out to smash my AA...lol
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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Fri Dec 11, 2009 4:48 am

Well he should !
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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Fri Dec 11, 2009 4:57 am

We will conquer this come hell or high water. Life is too short to constantly be thinking "what if."

We've spoken a bit before, with one case I went from Hi to F-close to bye in a day. Now granted I still feel like I was insanely lucky(reasons behind are just so typical) but it never would have happened if I hadn't approached.
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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Fri Dec 11, 2009 7:51 am

Me and LaRock are going to be working on that a bit up here as well. Well, quite a bit, lol. He should go back a changed man.

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PostSubject: Re: May as well be useful   Fri Dec 11, 2009 7:06 pm

Lets hope so....
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