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PostSubject: UPDATE TO: Signs I May be Missing   Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:18 am

I just wanted to thank everyone for their input on the last post i had. I also wanted to give those who contributed an update on what has developed since.

So i pursued her and would send her periodic texts to try to get her talking unto no avail. I would send 1 message on day maybe twice a week but she would never reply. It went like this for 3 weeks until the thursday before our guard drill weekend when she finally got back tome.

I spend literally the whole weekend with her when we were on base. We would flirt and talk. On Saturday what was supposed to be a 5 minute convo turned into more than an hour. She told me soo much about herself and she gave me a reason for why she never texted me back. Her boyfriend does not allow her to text other guys, he controls who she is friends with on facebook, who se hangs out with etc. He controls her life. They fight and argue and make up constantly and as she told me this she seemed upset and distrught. That night at 1230 she sent me a sweet text thanking me etc. Sunday we were again together all day. that afternoon we were texting off and on for hours.

So i think i made a lot of progress and i think she really does like me and i have been showing her that there are guys out there who can care without being controlling assholes.

So the question i have then is is there anything more that i can do that i am not doing already. i plan on calling her in a couple of days to do a lunch thing or something. I just dont want to push her to make a decision with this bf. I want her to come to me on her own without me forcing her
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PostSubject: Re: UPDATE TO: Signs I May be Missing   Sun Mar 21, 2010 9:19 pm

Well, at the moment, it sounds like you are sliding slickly into LJBF land. Was there any kino present when you two were together? Any kissing? Any type of attraction building at all?

If not, and if you want to push this away from LJBF land, then kino is absolutely vital. That will shatter the expectations of you're willingness to slide into LJBF land.

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PostSubject: Re: UPDATE TO: Signs I May be Missing   Mon Mar 22, 2010 3:12 am

I definitely do not want to be in Just Friends land and want to get something more out of this. There was a little bit of kino: hand touching, hugs, etc nothing thou that will make a mark on the richter scale. I want to make the impression that i am better than the douche bag she is with.

Should i just try to get her out on a "date" and just connect with her more on the physical level?

PS: When does kino cross the "touchy-feely line" too early......also what should i do about this bf of hers or should i just ignore it alltogether?
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PostSubject: Re: UPDATE TO: Signs I May be Missing   Mon Mar 22, 2010 3:48 am

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I want to make the impression that i am better than the douche bag she is with.
When most guys say that, they MEAN they don't want to escalate. What do YOU mean when you say this?
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Should i just try to get her out on a "date" and just connect with her more on the physical level?

PS: When does kino cross the "touchy-feely line" too early......also what should i do about this bf of hers or should i just ignore it alltogether?
Well, since I said the key right now is escalation, then yeah, you need to escalate things physically.

Touchy-feely . . . mainly work on kino pinging right now, which basically means quick touches to get her used to you touching her. You don't want to let your hand linger right away. But, once she's used to you touching her, you can linger all you want.

As for the boyfriend, you're wanting to show that you are a more valuable guy than he is. Guys that are higher value don't focus on telling the girl WHY they are higher value than some other guy . . . hint hint.

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PostSubject: Re: UPDATE TO: Signs I May be Missing   Mon Mar 22, 2010 4:05 am

Thanks again and yes i will work on this. Now i just got to get her out for a night on the town. I'll let you know how it works out.
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