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PostSubject: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Tue May 18, 2010 11:05 am

Hey guys, so I was out clubbing the other day. When we walked in we went down to the bar to get a few drinks with the guys. I ordered a round for me and my friends while teasing the bar tender a little. I got my drink turned around leaned into the bar and then here she comes a girl out of know where I hadn't even seen her comes around the wall and says hello, so at this point im confused because this does not happen to often she was a perfect 10 and she came up to me and opened me. I just said hey and kinda with a confused look on my face and she pretty much just left. Now what was I suppose to do in this situation obviously I messed up, but for future reference what would a real PUA do in this situation how would he respond?

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Thu May 20, 2010 1:34 pm

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Thu May 20, 2010 10:21 pm

Wow. Sorry man, had no idea this thread was here.

LOL, obviously you should've talked to her Wink Not just acted intimidated . . . even though you were Wink

Seriously, "beautiful night isn't it?" With a smile. "Just don't ask me to buy you a drink" with a wink added.

Side note, you're in Burbank and are 21 . . . I'll be in your area in about a month.

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You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 1:29 am

Yeah that why I figured I should bump it up. Tripp it seems like it would be that simple, but she gave maybe 2 seconds for me to react then she was gone lol. I dunno you live you learn. What part of LA are you in?
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 1:54 am

LOL, I understand the time was short, but in a bar it usually is.

2 seconds is plenty of time for you to meet her eye contact, HOLD IT, and respond with what I said up there. That would gain her attention, if just a bit more, because it would show your confidence.

Yep, you live and learn. It's ok.

I'm not in L.A. at the moment, but I will be. I'll be in Orange County about a block from Disney.

I've got a few hours, one night, that I'm offering to those who want to sarge with me in L.A. June 26th.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 2:14 am

Well Ill see what happens. I plan to go out of town a few times in the summer if im in LA ill join.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 11:30 am

That's cool . . . I see you're not serious about a free few hours Wink

If you decide to get serious . . . I'll need your number so we can coordinate.

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You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 12:17 pm

Haha it's not that it's just me and my friends are in the process of planing a trip to Las Vegas and were thinking about June. Any idea what you guys plan to do? Like for example which club etc?
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri May 21, 2010 12:44 pm

Well, it's up to you, especially since your trip isn't planned yet Wink

I don't know yet which club. I'll be looking at some of them soon. Why, some suggestions? I've looked at a few already, but not sure which one I'll pick for that particular night. I've looked at the one 20 or 30 floors up on Wilshire Blvd, I've looked at a few others too, can't remember any of the names tonight though, lol.

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You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Sat May 22, 2010 12:42 am

Theres 2 on whilshire their walking distance from where my dad opened his frozen yogurt store. One is elevate which I have been to and it is not that great pretty small. The other is a bar called standard that one is very popular, but expect to get there very early or else you will not get in with a group of guys. Other than that in hollywood, id suggest Playhouse which is also very hard to get into and ive heard good things about my house and highlands. Also, Drais is one of the new hot spots.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Sat May 22, 2010 12:57 am

Drais I haven't heard of. You'll have to tell me about that one.

Yeah, Elevate is the one we looked at. There were a few others too. I'd have to look again to find all their names. I don't know about Standard, doesn't sound familiar. An old list I had from probably a year ago included Vanguard, The Mansion at Day After, Spin Doctor at Highlands, Villa, Central, Elevate, and Opera.

I won't be bringing just guys. I'll have one girl with me personally.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Sat May 22, 2010 2:15 am

Well, just for a heads up the top places to be nowadays in LA/Hollywood are. Playhouse, my house, highlands, the standard(in la), Drais. I haven't heard much about van guard lately.

Heres the links to the ones I mentioned.

http://www.playhousehollywood.com/
http://www.draishollywood.com/flash/index.php#
http://www.myhousehollywood.com/
http://www.thehighlandshollywood.com/

Oh one more place ive heard good things about in LA is called the edison. heres the link for that one.

http://www.edisondowntown.com/main.htm

Their all pretty cool places.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Mon Jun 07, 2010 12:05 am

Drais and highland look interesting.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Mon Jun 07, 2010 12:19 am

Side note . . . it looks like Drai's, Highlands, and Playhouse are all right down from one another.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Tue Jun 08, 2010 9:00 am

Yeah In LA usually everything is down the street from each other when it comes to clubs especially in hollywood.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Tue Jun 08, 2010 10:41 am

Makes it easy to bounce from one to another lol

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You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Thu Jun 10, 2010 10:54 am

No doubt, but once again please take note that usually it is VERY hard to get into these clubs if your not there early. Like for example there is a line wrapping around the building when the clubs going to be closing in like 30 minutes.

BTW just to add regarding the topic. I was out again and got approached again and this time I did much better I held the conversation for a good 20 minutes then I ejected myself, because I was with a girlfriend of mine who was not feeling to good I felt the need to go comfort her a little.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri Jun 11, 2010 12:36 am

Hey, you held the convo for a bit. Excellent! Ejecting for a reason like that is fine, at least you talked Wink

Ok, so getting to begin with is hard, what about getting BACK in once you leave?

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri Jun 11, 2010 4:37 am

Um it really depends on the club, some places will stamp u so u can come back in and some places wont let you in because there is a lot more people who will be paying to get in once you leave. once they hit capacity no body will get in until people leave.
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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:28 am

Ok, gotcha. In my city, I'm not used to that exactly. Even though we do have packed clubs, they haven't turned people away for reasons of capacity.

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PostSubject: Re: Got approached, was confused did not say anythign.. ughh!   Sat Jun 12, 2010 4:00 am

Yeah I noticed that about other cities. Such as San Diego, CA you can go at any time no line no wait no problem. In LA you wait and wait and wait and your not even sure if your getting in. Its a very packed city the clubs are super packed, but its a great place to party!
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