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PostSubject: Accidently opening.   Sun May 23, 2010 11:48 am

Well, I had some success tonight, though I'm not sure I can actually call it progress. The DJ at the bar tonight was really doing a bad job, frequent gaps of nothing between songs. At one point I'm start ranting a bit with my friend, and for what ever reason I turn to my right and the girl at the table next to me is facing me and I just roll with it. Completely incidental opening. Had no intention of opening the girl, hell I didn't even really know she was there up till this point. Just goes to show how easy it can be to open when you don't think about it. If I really wanted to I could of probably pulled her from the guy she was with. That gets into a different issue of mine. I have a habit of not really being interested in a girl till she gives me a reason to be. So much so to the point of not giving the girl an opportunity to give me a reason.
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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Sun May 23, 2010 8:38 pm

LOL. The same habits from months ago. Well, at least you talked to the girl. What came out of it?

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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Sun May 23, 2010 9:15 pm

Not much, she was actually on a date, so if the guy was around she was focused on him. Thou she did flirt with me from time to time when he was off getting a drink, etc. And yea, same habits. It's kinda frustrating, that. Mentally I'm in a pretty decent place, but I still have all those bad habits from when I wasn't.
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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Sun May 23, 2010 9:22 pm

It's funny how girls are like that.

I was out last night with two girls and we started talking to a few guys and a couple of girls. One of the guys said he hadn't been laid in 6 months, but that he'd fucked two of his buddies last girl friends. His buddies girl friends kept coming to this guy and fucking him while they were seeing his buddy.

Very similar to this girl flirting with you while on a date.

One of the girls with me said "apparently his buddy doesn't know how to satisfy his g/f's." lol. In our speak . . . you were higher value than her date was last night, apparently.

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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Sun May 23, 2010 11:05 pm

Ha, yea, I sort of got the feeling that if I really wanted to I could have pulled her away. Caught them kiss on the dance floor at one point, and it just looked uncomfortable. I get the general feeling that my social value, without any real attempt to build it up, would place me so that 8s would be easy to open if I would just do it. I certainly don't feel intimitated by women of that quality anymore, thou 9's and 10's still feel imposing to me.
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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Mon May 24, 2010 10:11 am

Well, at least you're GETTING there in your head anyway . . . now we just need to take it from your head . . . to your mouth Wink

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PostSubject: Re: Accidently opening.   Mon May 24, 2010 9:29 pm

Yea, there is one big mental difference I've managed in the last 6 months or so. I used to go out, and lust after that "one" girl, being terribly intimidated. Now, I'm going out and seeing 6-7 opportunities. Still not taking advantage of them, but that is more a matter of habit than insurmountable fear, or nervousness. Furthermore, I notice more of the 8s than I used too. I think I avoided
noticing them in the past, using "that girl's hotter" as an excuse not to try. All the while being too intimidated to do anything about the "hotter" girl.

Something else that I'm starting to accept is that almost everyone around me, have confidence in my ability to attract women. If everyone around me says I should be pulling girls, what reason do I have to doubt myself? Just have to internalize that mindset. I'm smart, funny, unique, attractive, I just need to find my get up and go.
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