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PostSubject: Arranged marriages and true love   Tue Jun 22, 2010 12:14 pm

That doesn't exactly seem to fit together, does it?

Not to me anyway, not logically.

This girl I've seen for about 3 years now, yep we've had our share of problems, and we've also shared some really good times too, well, we broke up just after the beginning of this month. And . . . right after that she met this guy and they are getting married this Sunday.

Yep, a rushed wedding, for sure. I think it was actually arranged by both sets of parents. The mommy on the girl's side controls her life and the daddy on the guy's side seems to control his. The daddy fights his battles and the son seems to cower down behind him.

I guess you'd consider that a match, eh?

I'm thinking they will make life hell for each other, neither one being an adult. But I could be wrong.

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PostSubject: Re: Arranged marriages and true love   Sun Jun 27, 2010 3:44 am

It sounds a bit messed up to me. In eastern cultures arranged marriages are common and have a very high success rate. But that is because it is a part of their culture and have not subscribed to the western way of thinking. Love to them has nothing to do with a constant emotional high. It is more to do with getting to know each other intimately over a long period of time. Their concept of love is different to ours.

The problem here is that this couple are both westerners or have been exposed to the western culture. From what you say it sounds like it is sad and even cruel.
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PostSubject: Re: Arranged marriages and true love   Tue Jun 29, 2010 8:15 pm

Yep it's messed up for sure.

She barely knew his parents names, he knew nothing of her past. In fact, when I told him she'd been seeing me . . . suddenly she no longer stayed at home. i.e. there is no full trust there. Oh well, I haven't had contact with her in over a week and have no desire to now either.

Hope they remain happily married for ever.

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PostSubject: Re: Arranged marriages and true love   Tue Jun 29, 2010 9:46 pm

Lets just wait and see what happens.
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PostSubject: Re: Arranged marriages and true love   Wed Jul 28, 2010 1:27 am

Yes, the waiting game.

Well, turns out she got a restraining order keeping me from contacting her or seeing her . . . literally just long enough for her to have her wedding. She didn't show to the court date to make the order permanent, so it was dropped.

She still have her house, though it seems her stuff has been moved. No signs of selling it. So either it's there as a fall back, or to increase the couple's net worth.

She never had a glow about her with this guy, like the glow that literally every one saw radiating from her when she was with me. She was never even proud enough of her relationship with him to tell me he was in the picture.

And yes, she had opportunities to do so. In fact, she did just the opposite, telling me I was supposed to be the one for her, after already planning to marry him. Meeting me, hugging me, kissing me, making out with me, telling me she wanted me and couldn't tear herself away from me . . . after she was already involved with him and planning to marry him.

Throwing her 7 year old autistic son lock, stock, and barrel into this rushed marriage. Pathetic really. The whole thing is pathetic.

But, I know her. She runs from truth, runs from reality, and runs from her real feelings because mommy dearest tells her what to do. At 36 years of age.

I'm better off without her. Now, if only my heart would get that message, lol.

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